Movie meet the real world: Pearl Harbor

Today I watched Pearl Harbor again on the telly and realised it needed a reality check

OK the story goes:
Its 1941 in the army base of Pearl Habor, Hawaii
Boy meets girl, they fall in love
WAR
Boy dies

Girl and dead boy's best friend fall in love
Boy returns (SURPRISE he's not dead)
Girl now preggers with boy's bestfriend's baby (uh oh scandal! Jeremy Kyle ish)
Girl chooses boy's bestfriend over boy

WAR
Boy lives - bestfriend dies (real death not the fake kind)
Boy returns to marry girl who loves dead bestfriend and raise best friends bastard child

REALITY:

War
Boy lives - bestfriend dies (real death not the fake kind)
Boy returns and tells girl to sod off, she picked the wrong guy he's no runners up prize, who told her to go fall in love and get pregnant with his bestfriend of all people, and so damn fast- he was only dead for 3 months!